The tantric massage is the familiarization tool for the body which makes the tantric exercise easier.
tantric dance
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This is therefore the achievement of what has been understood punctually of the “tantra” nature, during or after an initiation ( or revelation ), whatever if it is private or stemming from a training course or a week-end training...
It’s in this capacity this massage exists inside a tantric energy exercise. Any other kind of proposition of this massage is resulting from a mercantile proposition or fun.
That’s confirmed by the welcome ceremony, more or less ritualized, which opens the present moment, a ceremony which is followed by a massage given by the principle person who is proposing it (whether this person is a man or a woman, punctually with a yin or yang energy). As a general rule, the massaged person thanks his masseur or masseuse ( respectively symbolically his shiva or her shakti, whatever if he/she is a man or a woman physiologically speaking ), in offering him/her a massage like a return of energies. Once the massage or the ceremony is terminated, one is thanking each other in the most appropriate way, according to the intensity of the experience or concentrated emotions which is good to be liberated ( at that very moment that a long and intense hug is proposed ). We observe well by this process, that it is not a unidirectional gift (even if the massage exchange did not take place). It’s really a symbolic step, energy and profoundly active which should be verbally highlighted when it is given to a person who hasn’t yet perfectly acquired the principles of it!
As a result, the tantric massage is neither a sensual massage ( or, at least, doesn’t require necessarily more the sensuality for most of the massages ) nor, and certainly not, an erotic massage! Even if the tradition and the energy rules require that the sexual energies are tackled with zeal and know-how, with the greatest mutual respect.
That will not upset either the free rein of the generated affection, or already present before the massage, when the massage will be terminated!...
The tantric massage is therefore the achievement of an education, an approach of a search of one-self, of a search of the expansion of one-self in an open energy system.
Even if, by “accident”, the principle can catch a glimpse in the exercise of the mutual sexuality, the brevity of the glimpsed “flash” doesn’t allow to complete the energy task. The comprehension is distorted and leads to believe that there is only this mean and its disposition to access the spiritual world. That gives the impression that it is external to you, while the reality is quite different.
Tantra is the search of the knowledge contained in oneself, the search of the innate knowledge, or may-be even atavistic, which resides in each individual. The revelation of this knowledge shakes up too many cultural concepts to be accepted without any resistance. It breaks the societal rules of many countries, including the West, and makes that the leaders look unfavourably this self-approach! It liberates the individual, and provides a clear vision of life, often after some years of patient practice, gives the human the right capacity to react to various aggressions which everybody wouldn’t miss to live.
Tantric meeting
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All the practice has to lead the human being to behave himself/herself like:
- A stabilizer of life
- A “flashing” stabilizer or integrator of the emotions.
- An exceptional person, discrete and humble in its proposition, efficient in teaching and/or spreading Love around him/her.
- A vector of know-how, and social skills.
- A glorificator of the beauty of life, like the liberty of living.
- A bearer of an innovative and universal spirit of the global tantric thinking.
- An example of the respect of everything and of any life on earth.
The greatest names of the international human philosophy, known by everybody, and continually living with us nowadays or integrated in another dimension of life, have been at least once been inspired by the tantra or have approached or have held up very high the practice or teachings of tantra.
Your searches and your experiences on the subject enable you to give you YOUR tantra knowledge and then to invest towards THE knowledge you conceal in yourself...
I think ( and I hope ), by this page, having showed you, may-be even convinced, that far beyond the cultural concepts commonly admitted by the West, tantra offers, to anyone who makes the necessary efforts, the joy to participate a great spiritual trend of bearer of love, so many times announced and so many times suppressed by the evocation of many fallacious arguments...
What I’m showing to-day by these words is worth this day and will probably be different or better confirmed to-morrow? You will certainly also detect some comprehension variants with regard to what I was saying yesterday about tantra... I take advantage of this document to thank all those who were willing, with patience and Love, to clarify with their knowledge all along these last 8 years, so that at last I could catch a glimpse of MY way! At last, thanks to Daniel Odier having permitted me to find the best sites to make use of the candelabrums which are enlightening my road to-day...
Thanks having read me and to share with me your possible remarks and suggestions ( be well aware that this report is not exhaustive concerning my thought neither with my reflections, but could eternally go on if it did not terminate now! ).
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